Have you started to ask your boyfriend questions after you started dating him? Questions like “who is my boyfriend” “how many children does my boyfriend want” “how is my boyfriend in bed” are some of the common questions every girl ask her boyfriend.
If you want a happy and healthy relationship then having the right questions to ask your boyfriend is vital. This blog is designed to give you some questions to ask your boyfriend. It will help you to get to know them better and allow you to see if they are the right one for you.
When it comes to relationships, there are no dumb questions. If you are in a relationship with your boyfriend, then you should know everything about him. Questions are the best ways to get to know someone.
We’ve all been there, you’re dating someone for a few weeks and things are going great. You’re already thinking of long term possibilities; however, after some time the conversation starts to die down. There aren’t many new questions to ask your boyfriend that will spark excitement or even allow you to learn more about him. Not only is this incredibly boring for him but it will drive the relationship into an early grave if you don’t do something about it!
Here are 46 Romantic Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend That Will Spice Up The Relationship
You can use these questions as inspiration or make up your own based on what you want to know.
What do you think is the most important thing in life?
This will tell you a lot about how he feels about what’s most important to him. Trust, love, happiness?
What would your last meal on Earth be?
This one sounds morbid but it can show if he has any cares or worries about death or what philosophy he believes in.
How often do you watch TV?
TV is so bad for us these days; it would be great if your man wasn’t glued to the set every night! If he still watches TV even though there are so many amazing things to do makes me wonder why he wants to spend time watching mindless programming instead of doing something good with that time.
What is your favorite thing to do with your free time?
This one proves if he actually has any free time or not. Maybe he dedicates it all to his career, maybe he’s super busy – either way learning the truth is better than living in a fantasy!
How often do you check social media sites like Facebook and Twitter?
These are important because they tell us how in touch this person is with what’s going on in our world. If they admit that they don’t use them at all then it’s HUGE for me to know that someone isn’t following me or my friends/family – looking at my profile every five seconds when I’m trying to an actual conversation can make me feel like I’m not important enough to bother with.
What kind of music do you listen to?
This can tell you a lot about the person’s personality; what genre floats their boat and whether or not they even care about music at all! It could also hint towards other interests like movies, art and literature.
What is your favorite color?
This question can be used as an easy ice breaker but it also tells you how s/he sees the world through his eyes; what does this man choose when he has no limits on beauty and imagination – red, brown, green or blue?
If you were given $100,000 right now what would you spend it on?
If he says that he would save the money then you know he’s very sensible and wise. However, if he decides to go on a shopping spree you might think twice before buying this person a gift.
What is your favorite restaurant?
I hope they love local eateries more than the fast food places! If I’m going out of my way to cook for someone then it would be nice if they appreciate that I care enough to make them something delicious instead of automatically asking for a burger and fries.
If you were stuck on an island for one year, what 3 things would you bring with you?
This question shows how important material possessions are based on what someone chooses; technology, family or friends? It can also see their imagination often comes in handy when dreamily picturing what they would bring with them.
What TV show are you obsessed with right now?
This is another opportunity to find out if they really have time for TV or if it’s just a filler for something better. I need to know that you won’t waste your time in front of the boob tube when we’re trying to hang out and do something fun. That doesn’t give you much quality time with me!
If you could eat one thing everyday, what would it be?
We all love food so this question isn’t too hard but it can tell if their taste in foods is similar to yours – Mexican, Chinese, Italian whatever tickles your fancy! Maybe they hate onions and garlic and that will instantly turn out a friendship and interest for them.
What is the worst meal you have ever eaten?
This question was inspired by something my grandmother said once; “no one will remember what you wore, but everyone will remember how you made them feel”. The same goes for food! We all had bad meals in restaurants (or even at home) and talking about it can make us realize that we aren’t alone.
Who would win in a fight between Batman and Superman?
This will show what your man’s preference on superheroes really is; does he prefer dark and gritty or bright and colorful? If they don’t know who either of the characters are then why did they ask this question?! You can provide some education while learning about their childhood.
Would you rather go to the beach or mountains?
This question tells us whether s/he prefers nature or crowds; if they choose the mountains then that means they like peace and quiet while having fun adventures. If your man selects the beach then maybe keep your plans for camping trips inside, hm?
What do you think about existentialism (or any other topic)?
This is a good chance to find out how well their education has prepared them for life; do they know what existentialism really is or did someone just mention it on TV one night? Learning everyone’s opinions on this subject could be incredibly insightful into finding commonalities between people who are very different than each!
What was your first impression of me?
This question could be a little unnerving but I’m a big fan of first impressions and how people view you. Romantic relationships are all about attraction and the best way to figure out if someone is interested in you or not is by seeing their reaction when they first meet you! Remember that this is just an ice breaker, don’t dwell on it too much but use as a tool to show interest.
What do you hate most about yourself?
I can’t stand these kinds of questions because who wants to find out what your boyfriend thinks are your worst traits?! This question tells us so much more than we want to know; does he have low self esteem or does he think his perfectionism makes him better than everyone else? Definitely a question to avoid.
What do you think is the most embarrassing thing that could happen to you?
This question can be fun because it shows which of your boyfriend’s worries are rational and which ones just pop into his head from time to time. You may even help him realize how irrational some fears can be so he can feel a little better about them. Maybe they’ll learn a new worry to add onto their list.
If you had one superpower what would it be?
That will tell you if his superpowers come from comic books or movies; does he want invisibility or teleportation (even though those aren’t very realistic)? Whatever the answer is that tells you what kind of man they are.
What is the most embarrassing thing that has happened to you this week?
Everyone loves a good laugh so maybe asking your boyfriend these kinds of questions could help you find out how well he can take a joke or tease someone without getting too serious about it. If all else fails just remember that if they get angry then that means their ego isn’t in check which might have some influence on the relationship.
What are your parents really like?
You might feel weird asking this question because it’s so personal but think about when you first met them! You were probably curious right away and not until later did you realize why some things made you seem suspicious. This question tells us whether they both love each other or if they’re sort of like oil and water; if their parents are super affectionate then that means he wants the same kind of relationship you do.
What was your favorite toy as a child?
This is another question to ask your boyfriend if he has siblings because it shows whether or not his younger sibling may have taken it from him at some point. Maybe these two questions will help you learn if he’s overprotective, but just remember that everyone needs time to heal before moving on! I know the pain of losing people close to me so tell him “It’ll be ok” if needed because that’s what friends are for.
Would you rather live in the country or city?
Romantic relationships are all about compromise so asking him this question tells you what his standards are; do they want to live in the country or city? Maybe if he’s willing to make some sacrifices then you’ll consider where he wants to go.
What would you like your dream house to look like?
This is another good time for what will be discussed later on in the article; getting into real estate. Romantic relationships should be working together towards common goals and that can include making it big! Let them know that whatever their dreams may be, you’re willing to help get them there (but give them space once in a while).
When was the last time you cried? Why did it happen
Don’t feel bad about asking this question because it’s important to know what kind of emotions are at the surface. If your boyfriend is still upset then that means they haven’t healed yet which might be a warning sign, but if they cry when you’re sad then that says volumes about how much they care.
What was your childhood nickname?
This question isn’t deep but it shows what memories influence them most in life; think about all those times their parents or family members called them by another name and see how long it takes before they start smiling! It could also help you find out who had more power (especially if both parents call him something else).
What do you love most about your best friend?
This question tells you whether they’re introverted or extroverted because maybe both of you have someone in common! Romantic relationships usually don’t work if they aren’t friends so get to know your boyfriend better by finding out who his best friend is and asking them too.
What would be the hardest lesson for you to learn?
Everyone needs an education no matter how natural some things might seem; think about all those times when something wasn’t going right with a pet or business partner then ask this question. Romantic relationships are a lot like learning a new skill set so maybe they want to take some time off from school, but that doesn’t mean they’ll quit forever!
Who has been really influential in your life?
Every single person we meet has a story and some of them will stick around for a lifetime. Romantic relationships are meant to be one-of-a-kind so get involved!
What is your ideal way to spend an evening?
This question tells you whether or not they’re low key because sometimes it’s nice to get away from the stress of daily life. Maybe he wants to go get ice cream with friends while you prefer staying in by yourself, but there’s nothing wrong with either answer as long as both people have a good time.
Do you want kids someday?
Someday might be a while so don’t try too hard if you really want kids. Romantic relationships should never ‘force’ someone to do something they hate doing and this question tells you whether or not they’ll make good parents.
Are there any parts of your past that you feel ashamed/embarrassed about?
Every single person has an embarrassing story and asking this question does two things; first, it makes him remember the time he was rejected by someone he really liked and second, it reminds them why they’re with you now. Romantic relationships are meant to be based on trust so sharing those stories builds intimacy!
What’s your ideal way to spend a Sunday afternoon?
This is another great example of what I mentioned earlier because Sunday afternoons and evenings tend to be nice and relaxed. Romantic relationships should never be stressful so talk about all those times when both members had to work on weekends and all those events that were fun for both of them.
What kind of music do you enjoy listening to?
This is one of the most popular questions but it’s really important because romantic relationships are meant to be enjoyed by everyone! Romantic relationships involve some time together whether they’re watching movies, going out with friends, or just being alone- so choose the music that’ll bring back memories whenever you hear it. They might have some strange tastes in music so don’t judge too quickly because there’s always something good to learn about someone!
Which celebrity would be your dream date?
This question tells you what they think about romance because maybe they haven’t met anyone who had a similar personality as themselves, but their ideal date might be a lot closer than you think. Romantic relationships aren’t meant to be with a celebrity because people can’t relate with them and that’s why this question is so important! Romantic relationships are all about relating with your partner on a deep level.
What would make you the happiest in life?
This tells you whether they’re motivated by fame or love because sometimes family members want recognition while others just try to find someone who loves them unconditionally. Romantic relationships should never involve competition because everyone deserves happiness no matter how hard it is to succeed at times- especially when there’s constant fighting involved. There’s nothing wrong about wanting love over money anyways!
If you were able to visit one place before you die, where would you go?
This tells you whether they’re adventurous and spontaneous because maybe they want to visit places that aren’t accessible by plane. Romantic relationships can be like a vacation too and it’s always nice to experience new things no matter how hard they might be!
Can we visit your city someday?
This is another important question because it builds empathy with your partner no matter how excited they might get about visiting their hometown- which also makes them feel great as well! Romantic relationships should never make either person see red flags no matter how much they disagree with each other- so ask this question whenever the opportunity arises!
What one thing would make our relationship perfect?
Finding out what makes them happy means a lot because it shows that you’re willing to do anything for them to make them feel loved. Romantic relationships aren’t meant to be perfect but all those little things count towards the big picture anyways! Romantic relationships should never hurt anyone and this question tells you whether or not they’ll do anything possible to avoid hurting you.
What makes me really special to you?
This is another great question about feelings because maybe they don’t always say nice things but there’s nothing wrong with showing your partner some love every once in a while. Romantic relationships are meant to bring two people together so asking all those important questions helps everyone feel closer together- no matter how much time has passed since the last conversation!
Who/What would be your dream date?
This tells you about their intentions because maybe they have a crush on someone else but they wouldn’t want to admit it if they felt embarrassed. Romantic relationships should never include competition between friends so this question is very important because it helps you understand what they really think about romantic relationships! Romantic relationships are meant to be enjoyed by everyone- no matter how much drama there might be at times. Romantic relationships are all about relating with the person you’re involved with and that’s why asking questions like these are great ideas!
What does love feel like for you?
This tells you whether or not romantic relationships are confusing for them! Romantic relationships can be complicated at times but it’s important to remember the good things whenever something gets complicated. This is another great question that sets the mood for conversation whenever you’re feeling bored! Romantic relationships are meant to be fun and exciting- no matter how much crying there might be! Romantic relationships aren’t about competition with friends either so this is a good way of seeing what they think about romantic relationships. Romantic relationships are all about relating with your partner on an emotional level because it’s important to know their feelings!
What’s the best thing about our relationship?
This tells you whether or not they want to build a future together because maybe they don’t take things as seriously as them! Romantic relationships should never include jealousy between family members so this question is very important to ask whenever one feels confused. Romantic relationships involve trust and communication so this is another great question to ask whenever you feel like something is wrong. Romantic relationships are all about relating with one another- no matter how much time has passed since the last conversation! Romantic relationships aren’t meant to involve stress whenever someone sees red flags so this is a good way of seeing what they think about romantic relationships!
What’s your favorite memory with me?
Romantic relationships should never include competition between friends so this question is very important because it helps you understand what they really think about romantic relationships! Romantic relationships are meant to be enjoyed by everyone- no matter how much drama there might be at times.
You may be surprised by some of the questions below but it’s important to ask them because answering these questions will allow you and your partner to get closer emotionally and physically in ways that make both parties happy!
We hope these questions help you get to know your partner better and strengthen your relationship. If there’s anything we’ve missed, let us know in the comments below!